It will make the entire trip better if the kids can watch movies. A portable DVD player will let them watch their favorite movies while traveling.
Kids will watch a new movie over and over. You can buy a new movie or you can hit a Redbox.
Car games are a lot of fun for the entire family. There are lots of great games and things to do for all ages.
Make the most out of a stop. Instead of stopping to eat and again for gas, stop somewhere you can do everything: gas, eat, and restroom.
I let my kids have drinks, but I make sure to spread it out. This keeps us from making extra stops.
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